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Chapter 13

Favor and Disgrace Both Startle

宠辱若惊

The Text

宠辱若惊,贵大患若身。何谓宠辱若惊?宠为下,得之若惊,失之若惊,是谓宠辱若惊。何谓贵大患若身?吾所以有大患者,为吾有身;及吾无身,吾有何患?故贵以身为天下,若可寄天下;爱以身为天下,若可托天下。

Favor and disgrace both startle; honor is as much a trouble as the self. Why does favor startle? The favoured one is beneath; receiving it is alarm, losing it is alarm — that is why favor and disgrace both startle. Great trouble is being bound to a self. Only one who values the world as the self can be trusted with the world.

Reading it

The startle reflex is the datum: it shows where you have handed yourself over. The chapter does not say do not want honour; it says notice the leash. The last line is an employment criterion, not a compliment.

「惊」是数据:它标出你在哪里把自己交了出去。本章没有说不要荣宠——它说留意那条链子。末句是用人标准,不是恭维。

Practice for the week

Catch yourself flinching once this week — at praise or at slight. Note which one leapt harder.

这周捕捉自己一次「惊」——无论受宠还是受辱。记下哪一下跳得更猛。

Dao De Jing Chapter 13 — Favor and Disgrace Both Startle | Zhen He Sheng